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The Psychology of Love and Hate in Intimate Relationships

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  • Provides an insightful view on how romantic relationships develop, thrive, and-sometimes- die

  • Covers historical and cultural analyses of love, lust, and hate within the context of romantic relationships

  • Explores the latest developments in romantic relationships, like social acceptability of polyamory and use of technology

  • Includes supplementary material: sn.pub/extras

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Table of contents (9 chapters)

  1. Love

  2. Hate

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About this book

Social psychology has made great advancements in understanding how our romantic relationships function and to some extent, dissolve. However, the social and behavioral sciences in much of western scholarship often focus exclusively on the more positive aspects of intimate relationships--and less so on more controversial or unconventional aspects. The goal of this volume is to explore and illuminate some of these underrepresented aspects: aspects such as non-monogamy, female orgasm, sadism, and hate, that often function alongside love in intimate relationships. Ultimately, by looking at intimate relationships in this way, the volume contributes to and advocates for a more holistic and comprehensive view of intimate relationships.  

Throughout the volume, contributors from social, clinical, and evolutionary psychology cover love and hate from a variety of (sometimes opposing) perspectives. The first section, covers love and the changing landscape of intimate relationships. Its chapters review the current literature and research of understudied topics like non-monogamy, female orgasm, sexual fantasies, and the viewpoint of love as something other than positive. The second section explores hate and how hate can operate in intimate relationships--for example, the appearance of sadistic behavior and debates the nature of hate as either a motivation or emotion. The volume concludes, by looking at ways in which the appearance of hate in relationships can be dealt with and overcome successfully. Taken together, these two sections reflect the full variety of experiences within intimate relationships.  With the aim of exploring how love and hate can-and frequently do-work together, The Psychology of Love and Hate in Intimate Relationships is a fascinating psychological exploration of intimate relationships in modern times. It is an invaluable resource to academics and students specializing in psychology, gender, and sociology, including clinicians and therapists, and all those interested in increasing our knowledge of intimate relationships.    

Reviews

“The chapters are very interesting and consistently well written. Each will be useful to graduate students and researchers interested in a specific subdomain. Where relevant literature has accumulated, the contributors have done a good job of representing what is known and highlighting areas where inquiry should proceed.” (Brian H. Stagner, PsycCRITIQUES, Vol. 62 (6), April, 2017)



“Psychoanalysts and existential psychologists have long theorized the ‘coexistence of love and hate’ in intimate relationships. … the goal of this title is to gather the work of those who have done so. … the work is split into two parts: one section on love, and the other on hate. … Summing Up: Recommended. All readers.” (J. Ostenson, Choice, Vol. 54 (5), January, 2017)


Editors and Affiliations

  • Psychology, Hawaii Pacific University, Honolulu, USA

    Katherine Aumer

About the editor

Dr. Katherine Aumer is an Assistant Professor of Psychology at the Hawaii Pacific University, in Honolulu, HI. She received her PhD from the University of Texas, Austin. She has conducted research in the areas of emotion, relationship satisfaction, and racial identity. She is currently conducting research on sexual identity and personality in long term relationships. 



Bibliographic Information

  • Book Title: The Psychology of Love and Hate in Intimate Relationships

  • Editors: Katherine Aumer

  • DOI: https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-39277-6

  • Publisher: Springer Cham

  • eBook Packages: Behavioral Science and Psychology, Behavioral Science and Psychology (R0)

  • Copyright Information: Springer International Publishing Switzerland 2016

  • Hardcover ISBN: 978-3-319-39275-2Published: 01 July 2016

  • Softcover ISBN: 978-3-319-81855-9Published: 07 June 2018

  • eBook ISBN: 978-3-319-39277-6Published: 23 June 2016

  • Edition Number: 1

  • Number of Pages: X, 184

  • Number of Illustrations: 8 illustrations in colour

  • Topics: Personality and Social Psychology, Sexual Behavior, Gender Studies

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